Must know the instructions of the Prophet Muhammad
From here it can be seen the urgency of the needs of the servant who can not be bargained again to find out the instructions brought by the Prophet Muhammad. Because, there is no way to get luck except through the instructions. The good and the bad cannot be identified in detail except from the side of the clue. Whatever the need that comes and whatever the urgency that arises, then the urgency of the servant and his need for this Apostle is much more important.
What do you think of the person whom you have been desperate to give him a hint? No one can feel this way except a living heart. Because the dead no longer feel pain. If happiness depends on the guidance of the Prophet Muhammad, then anyone who wants salvation for himself must know and know his instructions, sirah, and circumstances, so that he is free from the snares of stupid people. In this case, there are people who get a little, get a lot, and some people don't get it at all. The bounty is only in the hands of Allah, which is given to whomever He wills.
The guidance of the Prophet Muhammad in marriage and association in the family
It is authentically narrated from the Prophet SAW, from the hadith of Anas, that he said, "What I love most in your world is women and perfume. And the pleasure of my heart is made in prayer." (narrated by An Nasai, Ahmad, and Al Hakim)
He was given power 30 times in the jima ', so that he once rotated several wives in one night. Allah allowed this for him, which was not allowed for the rest of his people. But he still made a division between them in the place of residence and maintenance.
His life with his wives was a very good relationship, full of noble morals, he once sent several daughters from the Ansar circle to Aisyah so that they could play together.
If Aisyah drank from a glass, then she took the glass and drank it on the part of the glass that Ayesha drank while reading the Qur'an. In fact, it could be that Aisyah is menstruating.
He told Ayesha to wear a cloth because she was menstruating, then he made love to her. He also once hugged Aisha when she was fasting. He once invited Aisyah to run, watching the two of Habasyah's people playing near the mosque, while Aisyah leaned on his shoulder.
This all shows his tenderness and subtlety in associating with his wife. If he wants to travel, he draws lots between his wives. Whoever's name comes out, then he is entitled to accompany his journey.
That's why he said, "The best of you is the one who is best to his family, and I am the best of you to my family." (Narrated At Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban)
After performing the Asr prayer he went around among his wives, to find out the condition of all of them. When night comes, he is at the house of one of the wives who has a turn.
Aisyah said, "He did not overestimate some of us over the others in the matter of dividing the night shift. Almost not a day but he wandered among all of us, approaching every wife he visited without having intercourse with him until he arrived at the house of the last wife who was to spend the night.”
Excerpted from the translation of the book Zadul Ma'ad (Provisions for the Journey to the Hereafter) by Ibn Qayyim Al Jauziyah [DDHKNews]
