If angry, your husband always says harsh words

ASKING:

Assalamualaikum. chaplain

Ustadz, may I ask for enlightenment? I have a problem with my husband.

I have a husband, when angry he always says bad words, even if it's a small problem. Right now we have a problem. My husband was angry with me, and said that my wife had no morals, violating nature. He said, it was useless to wear the headscarf, because I was a disobedient wife. When angry with me, he always said words like that.

What I ask, will his words have an impact on me? Because heaven's wife is her husband. That's what I'm afraid of, Ustadz. What should I do?

thanks.

Salam,

Fulanah

ANSWER:

Wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.

In the household, there are rights and obligations of each partner, both husband and wife. And Islamic law teaches how to treat each partner with ma'ruf (mu'asyarah bil ma'ruf), full of kindness, exemplary and exemplary, as well as reminding and advising one another.

Your partner's harsh or rude attitude should not be reciprocated with the same thing. Someone had to hold back. Don't forget to appreciate each other by saying thank you, apologizing if something goes wrong, and so on. Invite communication in situations and conditions that are both comfortable.

Finally, pray more and pray for each other.

Thus, wallaahu a'lam bish-showâb.

Regards!

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