ASKING:
Assalamualaikum, chaplain.
I am converted. Once married and my money ran out, I was not treated well by my husband and husband's family. Then, when I left again, they conspired to cheat me, but in the end it didn't work.
Then, whether my husband did what to do with my child, suddenly my 4 year old son suddenly became hated and emotional when I called. The child's drastic attitude made me suspect that my child was being bullied or force-fed to hate me.
What is the solution to help my child get rid of something like this? Alhamdulillah, I decided to divorce my husband, Mr. Ustadz.
thanks.
Salam,
Fulanah
ANSWER:
Wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
Divorce is permissible in Islam, but it is a lawful act that Allah hates the most. If it is still possible for ishlah (peace), then that is better. But if not, hopefully we can take lessons from the divorce.
As for children who are still 4 years old, they are children who are not yet mumayyiz (reasoning) and baligh (adults). It is better if the mother continues to have a good relationship with him, while asking Allah for a way out, such as praying a lot and doing istghfar and other good deeds.
Be patient and keep praying, may Allah make it easy soon.
Wallâhu a'lam bish-showâb.
Regards!
Answered by: Ustadz Very Setiyawan, Lc., S.Pd.I., MH
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