DDHK.ORG - Widowed or Away from Spouse, Can I Use Sex Aids?
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Ustadz, I want to ask a question.
What is the ruling if a widow or a wife who is far from her husband uses a sex toy to fulfill her biological needs?
Please explain, considering this issue is very urgent, I'm afraid to commit adultery with men. So, take a shortcut using a fake.
Thank you, Ustadz.
Greetings, Fulanah
ANSWER:
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you
The husband and wife relationship is a sacred right in Muslim life. And the purpose of Islam with the existence of marriage, one of which is to produce offspring and protect oneself from immorality. So the biological relationship will not be achieved according to Islamic guidance, if using things that are not permitted by the Shari'a, including the use of sex aids.
Information regarding the use of sex aids is as follows:
- Husband and wife in normal conditions have sex using sex aids, it is forbidden. Let the husband find a way and learn how to make his wife happy by fulfilling her biological needs properly.
- Widows who use sex aids are also haram, because there are other solutions to suppress their biological desires, namely by remarrying. Because the use of sex aids has an element of masturbation, it violates human nature, and is not part of Muslim morality (many are non-Muslims).
- As for husband and wife who are far apart, the original law is also haram. In this case, one should look for a lawful solution. For example, by increasing fasting, keeping yourself busy with sports activities, reading books, and other useful activities. Usually, if a person is focused on the target and his work, he will avoid bad deeds. Meanwhile, people who think in various ways, including lack of religious activity, then witness a variety of spectacles that are not educational and have a sexual nature. If all the things have been tried and it turns out that it is still volatile and has not lost its desire, then this is called an emergency. In a truly emergency condition, some scholars allow masturbation. But obviously this is not the best solution.
Wallâhu a'lam bish-showâb.
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
[Answered by: Ustadz Fauzan Akbar Daulay]..
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