ASKING:
Assalamualaikum, Chaplain.
Sorry in advance, Ustadz. I want to ask, is the law fun and to comply with the husband's request to have sex and make out via cell phone? Did the two of them have to take a Junub bath afterwards?
Thank you, Ustadz.
Salam,
Fulanah
ANSWER:
Wa'alaikumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
One that requires bathing is the entry of the male genitals into the female genitals. Of course what is meant here is intercourse (jima '), even though it does not come out of semen. This is based on the agreement of the four schools of thought; Hanafi, Maliki, Shafi'i, and Hanbali. In fact, this includes the ijma '(agreement) of the scholars.
Among the hadiths that explain this are as follows:
عن أبي هُريرةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عنه: أنَّ نبيَّ اللهِ صلَّى اللهُ عليه وسلَّم قال: "إذا جَلَس خبين شُعَبِها عليه وسلَّم قال:" إذا جَلَس خبين شُعَبِها عليه وسلَّم قال: "إذا جَلَس خبين شُعَبِها عليه وسلَّم قال:" إذا جَلَس خبين شُعَبِها عليه وسلَّم. (رواه مسلم) ، وفي رواية: "وإنْ لم يُنزِلْ"
From Abu Hurairah ra: Indeed the Prophet of Allah said: "If he (husband) sits between his four limbs (wife) and his genitals touch his genitals, then it is obligatory to take a bath". (Reported by Muslim). In a history: "Even though it does not come out of semen".
The meaning of his four limbs is that scholars have different opinions. Some say his wife's hands and feet. There are also those who say both legs and thighs. There are also opinions that say other than that which is liked by the husband.
What is meant by touching male genitalia with female genitalia is not just touching. However, the minimum entry of the head of the dzakar (penis) or what is called hasyafah into the woman's farji (genitals). This is based on the ijma '(agreement) of the various schools of fiqh.
As said by Imam Nawawi in his book, Al-Majmu ': "In fact, if a man puts or touches his genitals on a woman's genitals but does not include them, then it is not obligatory to bathe based on ijma'.
Now, if a husband and wife make out only by telephone, chat, and so on, where there is no physical contact, plus they do not emit semen, then it is clear that they are not obliged to bathe. Including, it is not obligatory to take a bath here if you only leave Madzi because of the lust that bursts from both of them by a high mountain of longing. However, if only communicating with semen, then it is clearly obligatory for him to take a bath.
Wallâhu a'lam bish-showâb.
Regards!
Answered by: Ustadz Very Setiyawan, Lc., S.Pd.I., MH
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